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medications for ODD? [Sat, Nov 14th, 2009 at 7:53am]
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[ginger_biscuit]
[ mood | stressed ]
[ music | the heater blasting ]

My son who has been diagnosed with ADHD since he was 4 and 1/2 has now recently got the secondary diagnosis of ODD or oppositional Defiant Disorder or whatever. He has had a lot of success with the medication Concerta for his ADHD, but we are going to discuss some sort of medication to help stabilize his angry and volatile moods. He is having more and more stress at school and because he also has a motor skills problem and writing and typing is hard for him, school is becoming more of an issue and trigger for anger both at home and at school. What are some of the medications that have been used with your kids to try to stabilize their moods and help them cope with stress better? The school is doing what they can to help relieve the stress and workload but it is just not enough. I would like to know of any meds that you know about that have helped your kids or have not helped your kids. Any side effects, problems, etc. Our appointment to discuss this with the Psychiatrist is in the middle of December and I would like to be prepared with any info or questions I can gather from as many sources as possible. Thanks so much.

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[Sat, Nov 14th, 2009 at 11:49am]

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[starfish11]
I did this probably nearly two years ago and met some awesome mum pals, so I thought I'd try it again.

Name: Rebecca
Status: married to Troy
Age: 31
Location: Melbourne, Australia
Children: Nicholai is 7, Emmanuella is 6, Jericho is 3 and Soren is 10 months. No more!
Sahm/wohm/wahm: I've been a stay at home mum since I was pregnant with Nicholai.
Hobbies: journalling, craft (crochet, knitting, sewing), reading, talking, watching tv (I love The Big Bang Theory, Beauty and the Geek, Law and Order:SVU. I am trying to like gardening so I can my yard in order, but so far it seems more like a chore, lol.

More about me: My journal is pretty much just about my day to day life. I write in it a lot about what I'm doing, what the kids are up to, craft projects I'm working on. I post photos fairly frequently. A lot of my journal is public, so feel free to have a poke around and friend me if you think we'd get along.
I find my kids highly amusing, incredibly frustrating and annoying, and completely beautiful! Whilst I love being a mum and staying at home with them, I also find it hard work and I'm not ashamed to write about my difficulties with it. I like other mums who are not afraid to say that they love their little cherubs, but get fed up with their little brats!
I do deal with depression and anxiety, and am working out some ptsd stuff (stemming from my experiences in the bushfires earlier this year). I try not to focus on that in my journal, but I do write about it sometimes.
I always read my friends journals and comment when I have something to say. I try to make this often enough that you know I'm still reading, and I like having friends who do the same.
I'm interested in all kinds of people. I love really getting to know people and hearing details about their lives and their thoughts (why no, I'm not nosy...merely curious....) so if you think we might get along then add away and I'll do the same.
Photos! )
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[Fri, Nov 13th, 2009 at 12:07pm]

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[troishearts]
Name: Bethany
Status: Seperated. I married in June 2005 but as of May we're seperated. Filling for divorce just isn't our top priority right now.
Age: 23 as of 28 Oct
Location: Monterey, California
Children: 1. Livvy, she's 2.
Sahm/wohm/wahm: SAHM, although I have an appt today for a job. =)
Hobbies: Photography, Traveling, Blogging, Cooking, Baking, Home Interior Shopping, Throwing house parties.
...more about me (copied from my journal bio) )
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Hello, new post. [Mon, Nov 9th, 2009 at 6:05pm]

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[hyorish_dreams]
[ mood | cheerful ]

 Hello! :]

My name is Jenna.

Age: 21

Kids: one adorable little boy named Aiden. He just turned 1 on October 8th.

Location: Houston

Interests: Music, learning, reading, writing, meeting new friends. :]

I hope we can be friends. :]

Um.. what should I tag this as? 

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new piece I sent out today! [Mon, Nov 9th, 2009 at 12:36pm]

pandorasfox


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Get rhythm when you get the blues [Mon, Nov 9th, 2009 at 4:45am]

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[unanchor_me]
Hi. :)



Annette

Engaged

20s

TX and WA

A two-year-old daughter (and two dachshunds)

Part-time student

School/homework, watching baseball, photography, writing, nightlife, dancing, reading, concerts, travel

House and iCarly for the wins!

Check out my profile if you'd like. :)



Pics )
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beam me up! [Thu, Nov 5th, 2009 at 4:29pm]

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[monsterontheway]
[ mood | chipper ]

Hi everybody! I've posted here a couple of times now & have met some fabulous people and thought I'd keep on addin' on.

My name is Leslie. I'm a 20 year old WOHM of an 11 month old boy that I usually refer to as Cuda even though his name is Dean. I have a strong urge to nickname everyone and everything in my life. Anyway. I've been engaged to his father, Branbearpig, for 2 years now (I'm still just not ready to get married, dunno). We have the love of my life, a pit bull named Fry, who is Cuda's age, along with 2 of the neediest cats in the universe and a ball python who enjoys nothing more than a rat and a good cuddle.

I am a coffee addict and occasionally have a mouth that could make a sailor blush. I'm a libertarian (pretty much = solically liberal, politically conservative) and vegetarian looking to go vegan again sometime soon. I use disposable diapers, formula (though I wanted to BF and tried--preemie baby hated my boobs and they decided to stop working after about 2 months of pumping), and we don't co-sleep because he's independent just like both of his parents and will murder anyone or anything that comes into his sleeping area.

More & some pictures )

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Oh, I am quite tired of this lunatic... [Fri, Nov 6th, 2009 at 12:03pm]

hevavahkema
"There's a battle in his head that he cannot win. There's a man that he can never be."

He surrounds himself with ego and phone calls.
Calling people poseurs and wannabes.
There is a mirror in her eye when he says these things and he drowns in it like
a pseudo prince from a snow white fairytale.
He thinks himself a titan, when
the more he talks, the more people shrink
away in his presence.
A fizzled lightning bolt gone mad in the solitude of his synapse lapses.
And brimming with lies, so mad that he believes them himself.
A mad hat to be sure, brimming to the top with mercury, a rabbit falling
out of his pants.
And stingy as hell,
stringy hair falling out of his head.
Each strand a measured time of his youth slipping away.
Mad mad mad as hell.
A fallen mother, a fallen wife, fallen women all around and always
the finger pointing in another direction.
The wind is going to blow that finger back in someday.


"Ooh, it's scrambled eggs what he says
He accuses me of treachery
Got the nine lies, got the wide eyes,
got a failing grade in chemistry

If you count back to the balcony
when all we saw was a mystery
of a blonde-haired boy brought his mother joy
with his pedigree and family tree

Oh, lay it all out on a wicker couch
that you wove in a loony bin
Cut it out, it's a second-round bout
not the way of a gentleman

Ah, give it up, get a job,
take a pill and leave me be
He's got a synapse lapse he don't think he has
but it's been proven empirically

"If they take something precious from me,
I'm gonna take something precious from them."
Oh now he's losing his constituency,
we thought "Oh, this could never happen again."

If I take something precious from him,
he try to take something precious from me
There's a battle in his head that he cannot win
There's a man that he could never be

Oh no
Way to go
He's the mayor

Oh, I'm quite tired of this lunatic
Why must we suffer ''cause the mayor's sick?
He say: "All abandon from this sinking ship."
and he's off on another trip

No, he don't care about environment
He has made this a shitty place
My interest rate shrinks at a rapid pace
compounded daily on my worried face

"If they take something precious from me,
I'm gonna take something precious from them."
Oh now he's losing his constituency,
we thought "Oh, this could never happen again."

If I take something precious from him,
he try to take something precious from me
There's a battle in his head that he cannot win
There's a man that he could never be

Oh no
Way to go
He's the mayor

"If they take something precious from me,
I'm gonna take something precious from them."
Oh now he's losing his constituency,
we thought "Oh, this could never happen again."
(You're gonna hang your head and cry)

If I take something precious from him,
he try to take something precious from me
There's a battle in his head that he cannot win
There's a man that he could never be
(go ahead, go ahead and cry)

You're gonna hang your head and cry
Your gonna hang your head and cry
you're gonna cry
(He's the mayor)
(Oh no, way to go, he's the mayor)



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intro .. [Thu, Nov 5th, 2009 at 9:10pm]

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[missclea]
here's a bit on me, as a brief intro:

I'm Nadine, i'm of french Canadian background but been living a bilingual life for over 20 years.
I'm 13 weeks and 4 days as of today, my due date is may 10th 2010.
I'm 34 years old, but I'm always told I look like 21)
I currently live in Winnipeg, Manitoba (but i was born & raised in Montreal)
I work as the arts reporter for CBC television, in french. (currently off since Monday, for medical reasons.)
in a relationship (over 4.5 years)
it's my first pregnancy and even though it was not a planned at all, it's truly welcomed, despite my couple and health difficulties...
I'm interested in all things weird, magical and off beat.

I'm looking to meet other moms and also, would like to like to share with others on prenatal depression.
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[Wed, Nov 4th, 2009 at 1:43pm]

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[sweetx_xdreams]
[ mood | dorky ]

Name: Amanda
Status: In a relationship
Age: 21
Location: Eastern Washington
Children: 1 boy named Kilian
Sahm/wohm/wahm: Jack in the Box, lame I know. I just fiished being an assistant for Spirit Halloween, I miss it!
More about me: I am not new to livejournal but was dealing with some intense relationship changes over a year ago and a few of my other Mom friends didnt seem to understand but Imiss having a livejournal and decided it was time to try again! My son Kilian in turning 2 on sunday. Hes so incredibly smart andamazing, he has quite the vocabulary, loves repeating things =p He has an immune dificiency and I deal with a lot of medical things but luckily I get to give him shots at home weekly so much fewer hospital visits. I have my son 5 or more days a week and I love it, I wish I could have him more but am lucky his father wants to be a part of his life. As for me I work 4 or 5 days a week and when I have time I really enjoy art and music, or just relaxing. I just started reading he twilight series and got cable finally so watching tv, usually spongebob because kilians obsessed =] I consider myself mature and open minded but my journal isnt just about being a mom but also about me and the struggles of life.. I dont know im rambling I have a public post with a little more check it out and see if youd like to be my friend!

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[Wed, Nov 4th, 2009 at 9:33am]

pandorasfox
hey guys I'm hosting a sniff & swap party at my place this Sunday @ 2pm! if anyone wants to come let me know and I'll send you the invite. I started this from a conversation over on the Austin community so the other people coming I've never met before. (except Joy) :P

should be lots of fun and I'm really excited that some of the girls are bringing stuff from companies I've never tried before. Oh! there's also a really nifty door prize from Violette Market!
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Hi all! [Tue, Nov 3rd, 2009 at 7:08pm]

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[lunamothmama]
[ mood | calm ]
[ music | silence ]

Hey!  i am always looking for friends! *lol*

*Name: Jess
*Age: 32
*Children: 2 = Sarah (4) Azor (2)
*Married for 6 years, together 13 years
*I live in Massachusetts.
*I am a liberal's liberal :) and a total Obama fan - that being said, one of my best friends is a hard core Republican Evangelical Christian. go figure. But i really dislike religion or politics as discussion topics.
* I am a member of the Red Sox Nation, as well as a HUGE Celtics fan and a Patriots fan...love it, love it!
*I am a firm believer in Attachment Parenting
*we cloth diaper (not exclusively though, i get lazy a lot of the time)
*we cosleep until we just cant take it anymore *lol*
*i extended breatfeed, my 2yr old still occasionally wants to nurse first thing in the morning but i am trying to cut it out. He keeps sticking his hand down my shirt in public.
*i am an accomplished babywearer and have taught classes on all of the different types of baby carriers out there - you can find me on The Babywearer as LunamothMama ;)
*i love to crochet and loom knit, watch movies of all sorts, i listen to every type of music, i am an avid sewer, an artist, jewelry maker...etc
*licensed to teach Secondary Art, but pursuing my MA in Clinical Mental Health Counseling
*and if you check out my blog, you will see i have Bipolar Disorder and am working very hard to integrate that and it's effects into my life so as to not disrupt my children's development as it is a difficult thing for me to deal with. i cant imagine what it is like on the other end, but i am doing my best to keep my children out of it.

so that's it in a nutshell.  :)

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More friends please:) [Tue, Nov 3rd, 2009 at 7:57pm]

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[jimnifer]

Name: Jennifer

Status: 7 years

Age: 27

Location: Central Texas 

Children: 3 kiddos:):):)  Frankie 7, Emma 2, and Dylan 7 months

Sahm/wohm/wahm: I work at a pharmacy part time and I go to school online.

Hobbies: Hobbies?  I don't have time for hobbies, however I do love to read and play on the internet when I do have time
More about me: I don't ever know what ot write on this thing.  I'm your basic mom and wife, I love my children more life its self and I would die and/or kill for them.  They give me meaning and with the birth of our last child I felt a since of completion.  They drive me insane on some days but I wouldn't have it any other way, no other way.  I love Grey's Anatomy and Desperate Housewives but this season I haven't really been in to them, I don't really think they are good this year.  I'm a big fan of Harry Potter and can't wait to see the last two movies!  I like a good cry and I love a good laugh, I probably watch too much crime tv such as City Confidential and Notrious and Snapped, who doesn't love a good show about a crazy woman gone mad?  I also probably watch too much Lifetime but then again, it's those true life movies.  I love to sleep but don't do it often.  I formula feed and I use Pampers.  I support the death penalty. I'm a huge tabloid junkie and love those trashy magazines.  If there is anything else you would like to know just ask.
Check out my user info if you would like to see pictures of the 3 greatest kids ever.
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-- Please Visit Tristans Closet [Tue, Nov 3rd, 2009 at 7:32pm]
babysales
[tristans_closet]
Tristan's Closet @ LJ.COM


0-9 Months Boy Clothes

Carter's, Baby Gap, Old Navy, Okie Dokie, Garanimals,Child of Mine and Others

I just started so I will be adding things frequently


Please Take a Look
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-- Please Visit Tristans Closet [Tue, Nov 3rd, 2009 at 7:31pm]
baby_auctions
[tristans_closet]
Tristan's Closet @ LJ.COM


0-9 Months Boy Clothes

Carter's, Baby Gap, Old Navy, Okie Dokie, Garanimals,Child of Mine and Others

I just started so I will be adding things frequently


Please Take a Look
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intro : ) newbie as of 5 mins ago [Mon, Nov 2nd, 2009 at 2:27pm]

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[clockworkblack]
Name: Annette
Status: married since Jan 08
Age: 29 (turning the big 30 in Dec)
Location: Austin, TX
Children: pregnant with our first, due May 6th, 2010
Sahm/wohm/wahm: working TONS now, will be a wahm I believe? (work at home? I teach violin lessons)
Hobbies: I'm a professional violinist and was a big jogger pre-pregnancy. I also love true crime.
More about me: I'm 14 weeks pregnant with our first child, first pregnancy... looking for other first time moms perhaps to share the experience? : )
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Hello, fellow moms! [Mon, Nov 2nd, 2009 at 2:05pm]

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[i_like_nerds]
[ music | my daughter crunching her corn chex ]

Is motherhood a life altering experience, or what?

My name is Stacy, and I'm a stay-at-home mom. I have two little ones--a 2-year-old son, and a 5-year-old daughter. Love my kids so much it's ridiculous. They are so much trouble, and so, so much fun. I'm 35-years-old, but most of the time I don't feel like it. In fact, my hair is in two braids at the moment. :) I'm a bit nerdy. Enjoy computer games, but really don't have time to play them anymore. (Just wait until Diablo III comes out though--I'll definitely find some time then!) Love eclectic music, mostly non-mainstream stuff, although I can definitely appreciate a good hook if it shows up in the top 40. I love mysteries--books and movies--but nothing too upsetting. I prefer a cozy to be honest. My husband and I like to watch Bones, but we're kind of out of touch with whatever else is on TV. We love movies though--comedies, adventure, suspense, and corny horror movies, in particular. I try to sketch, paint, and do a bit of creative writing here and there. I'm liberal. I don't post about politics, or at least I haven't yet (not making any promises about the future, but I do try not to alienate people on LJ--I'm not here for political confrontations). Wouldn't mind someone else's lefty opinions, for sure, but if you are a righty and love to post about it--I'm definitely not your girl! I'm a Unitarian Universalist--so I'm not going to judge you or interfere with your religious beliefs, and I expect the same. :) I like to ruminate a bit about daily life in my journal, and I like to read about other people's thoughts and daily lives. Helps me to keep perspective! Plus, I've gotten some great music, book, and movie suggestions on LJ. I think that people are interesting, and I really admire people who have hobbies and unusual interests. However, I also appreciate that it can be very, very difficult to cultivate hobbies and interests when dedicating so much of yourself to parenting. I also have chronic migraines. It's a part of who I am (runs in my family) but I try not to let it define me and very rarely mention it in my journal. I've been off LJ for a while because of some moves, and a lot of my friends have stopped posting since I was last on here, so I'm looking for some new friends. I do tend to comment pretty often. Did I forget anything? I love my husband very much--he's sweet and funny, and a total science/technology geek.

If you think we might get along, feel free to add, but please also comment, otherwise I might not add you back. Also, if things don't work out one way or another, no hard feelings and it isn't personal, I promise!

Happy parenting!

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Hello! [Mon, Nov 2nd, 2009 at 11:37am]

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[knd79]
[ mood | good ]

Name: Kristine
Status: married a little over 5 years to Joe
Age: 30
Location: Western Pennsylvani
Children: Aidan (4 years old) and Kayla (2 years old)
Sahm/wohm/wahm: SAHM
Hobbies: reading, traveling, watching tv, hanging out with family, listening to music, walking
More about me: I'm a big history buff (love Ancient Roman history), love to travel mostly to historical places (Washington DC and Richmond, VA are my favorites), addicted to tv (CSI: Miami, Grey's Anatomy, and tons more), love to take pictures of my kids, like making icons for LJ and TalkCSI board

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re-intro to moi! [Mon, Nov 2nd, 2009 at 2:39am]

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[weenie_witch]
Bonjour yet again!

I copy and pasted what I wrote last time LOL (changed a tad-wee-bit for current relevance)


Name: 

Cat

Status:

Married

Age:

25...it is the darndest thing I just keep turning 25, let science explain that one to yah ;)

Location:

On the couch

Children:

1 one year old daughter who I named after myself...and a hot little man bun up in the oven(I am 28 weeks knocked up)

Sahm/wohm/wahm:

HUH?

Hobbies:

Oh boy...I am an art school dropout and a corporate sellout...just imagine the scoop of interest and talents that one covers.

More about me:

I am not everyone's cup of tea but if you like it strong and black I am your man...only I am white and a woman but same diff...serious I am not a sunshine and lollypop type but my journal has a friendly edge some may enjoy.




If you want to get a look-see of me and my little princess hop over to my journal I forget to lock posts all the live long day!
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